Itâs a question Iâve heard many times before:
âAre you following me?â
This call usually comes from someone whoâs nervous, suspicious, or just unsure. They might be worried that something from their past is catching up to them. Others feel like someone is searching for them â maybe an ex, an old creditor, or someone theyâve tried to avoid.
When people start calling multiple investigators, it’s a good sign they think there’s a real reason to be concerned. That belief alone tells us a lot. It often means theyâre trying to make sense of something they feel but can’t prove.
âAre You Following Me?â
When I get a call like that, I can usually confirm that Iâm not following them. But if another investigator is, I wouldnât be able to tell them anyway. Thatâs part of our job â staying discreet.
Still, itâs worth explaining why someone might hire a private investigator to gather information about you. Whether youâre in Boise, Meridian, Nampa, or anywhere across the U.S., here are the most common reasons.
1. Someone Needs to Deliver Legal Documents
This is one of the most common reasons.
When the courts or attorneys canât reach someone, they hire a private investigator to find and serve that person with:
- Court documents
- Eviction notices
- Debt-related paperwork
- Child support filings
If your mail has been returned or youâve moved without leaving a trace, someone may be trying to deliver papers and prove you received them.
2. Youâre on Workersâ Compensation or Disability
If youâve filed a workers’ comp claim, your employer or their insurance company may want to confirm the injury is legitimate. These investigations help determine if:
- The injury is real and prevents you from working
- Youâre following medical restrictions
- Thereâs any sign of fraud
For example, if someone claims they canât lift heavy objects, but gets caught moving furniture, it can raise questions. These checks usually involve short-term video or photo surveillance in public areas.
3. You Were Hurt in an Accident
Slip and falls, car accidents, or injuries in stores can lead to big payouts. Thatâs why businesses or insurance companies may hire investigators to check if your injuries match your claim.
If youâre honest, thereâs nothing to worry about. But theyâll still watch for a short time to make sure the story adds up.
4. Domestic Issues Like Infidelity
If a relationship feels broken, a suspicious partner may want answers. Thatâs when they hire someone to watch your actions and confirm or deny infidelity.
You may never notice, but an investigator could be in the background â watching from a distance, gathering evidence like photos or video. Itâs not about judgment. Itâs about getting facts.
5. A Child Custody Dispute
In family court, parenting behavior matters. One parent may hire an investigator to check how their child is being treated during visits with the other parent. We look at:
- Where the child is taken
- Who theyâre exposed to
- Whether they seem cared for
- Signs of neglect or risk
Good investigators report what they see, not what they assume. If you’re parenting responsibly, the results usually reflect that.
6. Someone Wants to Know Who You Really Are
Sometimes, people hire investigators for background checks.
This can happen when:
- Someone is dating you
- Youâve applied for a job
- Youâre trying to rent a property
- Youâve raised suspicions
If someone feels uneasy, they may want to verify your name, history, or criminal background. Itâs not always personal â sometimes, it’s just due diligence.
Should You Be Concerned?
If you’ve been followed, watched, or feel uneasy, it’s normal to want answers. But donât panic.
- Stay calm
- Live your life as usual
- Avoid doing anything questionable in public
- Speak to an attorney if you feel threatened
And remember, professional investigators donât take sides. Our job is to observe, document, and report â nothing more. We stay neutral. Many times, we end up proving that someone isnât doing anything wrong at all.
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